Career Path Quiz: Take 1

Today I joined the AMTA as a student, because membership is $20 and affords many of the same opportunities as professional membership, including insurance. Killer deal!

Poking around the site, I saw a Massage Therapist Career Path Quiz and decided to take it. Supposedly it’s designed to tell me my ideal workplace environment–be that home office, clinic, or cruise ship. It took about five minutes, and here are my results (which will surprise probably no one):

Your setting: Sole Practitioner/Self-Employed
Managing Your Own Massage Practice Might Fit You Best

According to your responses, you are flexible and have an interest or background in business. You have or are willing to develop strong marketing, financial and/or management skills for your massage therapy practice.

  • You enjoy your independence.
  • You may enjoy having to travel to work to see clients.
  • You would not mind having a flexible schedule: You may set your hours and be willing to take last minute clients.
  • You have great time management skills.
  • You can work without supervision or support.
  • You are a self-starter and highly organized.
  • You might be flexible with the types of clients you work with.
  • You can distinguish what your clients need from their massage session. For example, you might realize when a client requires a deep tissue massage, and you can also identify when relaxation is needed.
  • You are comfortable networking in order to stay involved within your community and build your client-base.
  • You work within the present, focus on the future and envision where you can take yourself and your practice.

I’d be interested in taking the quiz again in nine months, right around graduation, to see whether my answers have changed or my ideal work environment.

If you’d like to take the quiz, you can find it here:

Career Path Quiz: Take 1


Today’s lessons in massage school focused on sites of caution to be aware of during treatments. Circled areas, plus others on the body, should be treated very gently, if at all. No cheekbones were harmed in the making of this example!

The chief rule to follow is “no bones, no bends.” Steering clear of vulnerable places like the throat, insides of elbows, backs of knees, armpits, and groin can save clusters of veins, arteries, lymph nodes, and nerves. I will appreciate being able to learn more about how to work into these areas without applying direct pressure or compromising the tissue (and what’s underneath it).


A New Chapter!

And so, today begins a new chapter in life!

Today I started massage school at Bodymechanics, a ~9-month program with focuses on entrepreneurship and injury healing. I’m still writing and plan to continue that through school and beyond. This journey is a few years in the making, so the inception of it is all the sweeter and I could not be more happy to take life in this new direction.

I feel the need to thank numerous people as if this is a Golden Globe speech, but really I owe my interest in this field and my ability to pursue it all to my parents, both of whom went to massage school and continue to make that knowledge part of their lives in different ways. My mom has been a practicing massage therapist for 30+ years, and my dad has been an athlete and athletic… enthusiast… for most of his life. Massage school helped both of them learn and implement self-care practices and understand the way our bodies work and what they respond to.

So I’m delighted to be following in their footsteps and seeing how to make this endeavor my own over the next nine months.

Please follow along here and, if you’re on Facebook, at my student page. And feel free to contact me for free massage if you’re in the area! :)

A New Chapter!

Pantyhose and Eyelashes

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SAI (Sweet Adelines International, the women’s barbershop organization I sing with) is more a part of my faith than any god has ever been. I joined when I was 14, which means very soon over half my life will be measured in pantyhose and false eyelashes. Many of us can say we would be completely different people if it weren’t for barbershop, and I’m no different. I can’t imagine my life without it, and I generally don’t want to.

There are moments, though, where I do imagine my life without it. I have doubts. I wonder what it would be like to offer the many hours I spend to another organization, maybe one that helps LGBTQ+ youth, promotes environmental sustainability, supports local individuals with mental health issues, or addresses race relations in my community. In a darker way, I find myself wondering whether offering my time and energy to this craft is frivolous and thoughtless in a time when there are so many other causes that deserve urgent attention.

People say you have to care for yourself before you can care for others, and this is our way of calibrating our own conscience in order to be able to do good in the world. But is it still self-care if I question my priorities more than I devote myself to them?

People say making music together is a unifying act, that it can cross barriers words and actions simply cannot. But is it still unifying if I look around me and see a largely homogeneous group of people, even internationally, and audiences that are only a mirror?

People say rehearsal nights are the ones you can be yourself, let bygones be bygones, and put aside any differences in the interest of learning and harmonizing together. But am I truly myself if I continue to be terrified by views and ideologies that threaten me or people I love?

I’m not going anywhere–at least, not yet–mostly because my reverence for the role models who have helped me feel like I have a place is too great. I hope to be half as inspirational to younger members as those people have unknowingly been to me. But I gotta say, I’m tired.

I’m tired of the language we use highlighting a gender binary and heteronormativity. I’m tired of having to accept defaults like women’s songs about men and vice versa. I’m tired of talking about our bodies in ways that focus on flaws and encourage self-deprecation, instead of in ways that appreciate strength and function. I’m tired of the assumed holiday (read: traditional Christian Christmas) chorus season. I’m tired of fighting tooth and nail to defend a fairly innocuous piece of music for its perceived philosophical undertones while being expected to sing any song that has overt Christian roots. I’m tired of worrying that more inclusion in membership will only highlight people’s differences or create more polarization and ultimate alienation of new members.

Mostly I’m tired of thinking I’m “just too sensitive” for noticing these things and wishing for an atmosphere that does seem to be moving in the direction of greater tolerance and inclusion.

In the church of barbershop, sometimes I wish there were a minister who could offer counsel.

Pantyhose and Eyelashes

Listen To This: August 2015

I make monthly music playlists that rarely make it in front of other people. They used to be seasonal, but I like the more narrow approach of monthly playlists, because it’s fun to be able to see almost exactly when I discovered an artist or album. These aren’t impressive or particularly well crafted, and sometimes it’s downright embarrassing to think I thought highly enough of a song or listened to it enough to include on a playlist. But I don’t cheat at Scrabble and I don’t edit my playlists once they’re created, so what you see here is the raw accumulation of things I decided to add throughout the month. Continue reading “Listen To This: August 2015”

Listen To This: August 2015

Sorrows End – Sonnet 30

The most popular post on my blog is a collection of quotes from a movie that were originally stated elsewhere. The movie is The History Boys, and it contains a delightful assortment of snippets—songs, poetry, quotes from other movies, literature, you name it. I decided to compile all of these allusions, complete with accurate citations, nearly four years ago, and it turned out that others appreciated my sleuthing enough to make that my top-visited post of all time… even if it is simply an assortment of completely unoriginal material.

Ego bruising aside, I’m glad I investigated the original quotes. I developed an appreciation for A.E. Housman and—most importantly—I enjoyed Continue reading “Sorrows End – Sonnet 30”

Sorrows End – Sonnet 30

Aging Gracefully, According to a 24-Year-Old

2015 queens crowns SAII must have woken up in a rare mood of sentimentality on September 23, because when I got in my car and heard the first droning, synth-y chords of Alphaville’s “Forever Young,” something strange happened in my chest. It wasn’t sadness or despair, but it wasn’t particularly positive (though I can’t say I often feel enthusiastic about this song or the band I now know to be Alphaville). I knew it would be stuck in my head all day if I let it play—and yet, I couldn’t bring myself to change the radio station.

This was the day before my 24th (golden) birthday, which to many people might serve as an explanation for unidentifiable negative emotions. After all, who wants to listen to a song about eternal youth on repeat on the eve of a birthday?!

Continue reading “Aging Gracefully, According to a 24-Year-Old”

Aging Gracefully, According to a 24-Year-Old